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trying again...re appropriateness:

Date: November 11, 2009   permalink

From: Joyce Stanley <stanleyj@[Protected]>
NOT sure why my message didn't show up in my other email:

Whew, scary stuff here. As a new member I am a little surprised at
the rigidity of the posting process that doesn't all for direct
communication that is copied to all. (i.e. Maggie's email to Riley).
Not sure if I ever received a memo as to what is appropriate or
inappropriate, but since we aren't getting hundreds of emails and
since I can easily delete a thread that I am not interested in or
isn't relevant to me, I would propose that things be more 'chillin'
and accepting. This list is about apples and macs! Aren't we the
guy in the jeans not the suit?

Joyce
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Joyce Stanley
www.legacyfound.org

On Nov 11, 2009, at 8:42 AM, Maggie McClellan wrote:

> Good morning, Linda.
>
> Thank you for this lovely and kind email. Got my day off to a great
> start....
>
> I follow the Ashmug threads as best I can. I am not retired,
> however, thus, unfortunately, I have to work. But of course I'm lazy
> too, so really, it *is* unforgivable when someone like me doesn't
> bother to either keep up or come to a meeting and then just mouths
> off inappropriately like this with such a stupid question.
>
> I can't believe I didn't understand that asking for a member's
> contact info privately - who has publicly announced they are
> available for tutorials and just done an ashmug presentation on said
> subject - is now considered enough of a "no-no" to publicly
> reprimand and embarrass someone. What could I have been thinking?
> Thank you for setting me straight....
>
> I thought I had understood from reading the threads (as best I could
> - I *am* inefficient and lazy, I realize) that "inappropriate use"
> of the list was overly chatty off-Mac-topic stuff - and/or replying
> to a single person via the entire list on a private matter not of
> interest to other users.......
>
> But no worries, Linda. I will be resigning from the list, and I
> won't be coming to another meeting again either. So you can rest
> easy within your orderly boundaries.
>
> I believe this is a much better example of an "inappropriate"
> message, don't you?
>
> maggie
>
>
> On Nov 11, 2009, at 7:08 AM, Linda Gamble wrote:
>
>> This was NOT an appropriate message to send to the Talk
>> List!!!!!!!!!!
>>
>> Too bad you did not attend the mtg last night. We had a discussion
>> about inappropriate messages and how to just reply to the sender.
>>
>> On Nov 11, 2009, at 6:29 AM, Maggie McClellan wrote:
>>
>>> Hello, Riley ---
>>>
>>> I was unable to make the meeting last night - but I'd like to talk
>>> to you about a private tutorial on how to use Facebook. Every one
>>> of my students at SOU is totally wired into it; I have about 300+
>>> friends - and 96% of them are my students - many who've already
>>> graduated, etc.... It would be a terrific way to keep in touch,
>>> network, etc if I had *any* idea how to use it, which I don't...
>>>
>>> Also - I have a new iMac and need some help setting it up
>>> correctly....
>>>
>>> If you could email me privately with your phone number etc so I
>>> can call you and ask about your rates, how much time you think it
>>> might take, etc.
>>>
>>> thanks, Riley -
>>>
>>> maggie
>>>
>>>
>>
>>
>> <me.jpg>
>>
>> Linda
>>
>>
>>
>